Kalema Lawrence
Ladies, men are not as complicated as you think. In that text message he sends to you, he means what he writes, dont stress your brain trying to look for the underlying message attempting to decode the meaning between the letters and the lines.
When you like a guy and you have been out a few times, you get a little obsessive over his text messages. Don’t take screenshots of what he says, and send it to all of your friends, asking for advice on what it really means.
In some cases, women even send to their female friend’s text messages they intend to reply to their men, just to have their opinion and ask them what emotion such would evoke. It’s okay, but before you waste energy trying to read between the letters, most men text what they are really thinking. And when they don’t, it simply means they have nothing on their mind to say.
Sample this innocent text message from a man to a woman:
“I had a lot of fun last night. I’m going to be really busy at work for the next few weeks.”
What girls think: He’s going to be busy for a few weeks, which is fine! Maybe I will just check-in from time-to-time to see if he is feeling less stressed. Maybe I could plan the dates to make it easier on him, now that he is too busy to plan.
But the man actually means: “I will be really busy at work, but if I wanted to see you, I would make an effort. So please, don’t disturb.”
Ladies, alternatively, if you send him a long, sweet text message and he responds with, “Ha, that’s great.” Or something really short, and he doesn’t ask a question to continue the conversation, he actually means: “I am not a poet. I will not write you a sonnet.
If he doesn’t follow up a few hours later or the next day and try to continue the conversation then he’s not that into you.
Therefore, if you are that insecure women who over analyze text messages, you are getting yourself stressed for no good reason.
