Believe it or not, most men get intimate with women not to enjoy intimacy, but to ‘outperform’ themselves or their woman’s previous lovers. This is because when you poorly perform than her ex for the first three times, she will surely start thinking back to her mind, Why did I get into this? Therefore, boys/ learners or mature men always have fears before munching that forbidden fruit for the first time.
Interested in knowing them, here are they!!
Lacking modern/ Quality Styles
Every man believes he is great in bed. Others keep improving and boosting their skills by watching adult movies, using it as a benchmark for great performance. Mostly in youths, each time before getting between the sheets, they ponder about being judged as lacking porn star quality or credentials.
This is common in youths like me that fear early responsibility. Such types will never last long in a relationship since they believe that the more affectionate she becomes to you, the higher chances of issues like ‘we should start a family’ comes in. So the reason we mostly opt for random girls.
And truly, whenever you get in bed with such woman, or the one you think is not up to your standards, his biggest fear is getting her pregnant or her clinging on you.
Inexperienced Coming Off
As many men confessed, there is always the pressure of wanting to be seen as ‘normal’ by their female partners. They pray and hope once they get naked, they will resemble other ‘normal’ men she has met before, both physically and in their sexual behavior. No man wants to come off as odd or weird.
Failing to rise to the occasion
After the long time of dating, here comes a time when she give you a ‘yes’ or behaves in a manner likely to suggest she is ready for intimacy. This is where the fear of failing to rise to the occasion or not having a sufficiently stiff one happens to some men. Another fear in this kind of state is experiencing a premature ejaculation while still ‘warming up’ even before the big game itself begins.
Contacting an STI
Many of us fear the shame of walking from one Clinic to the another, looking for medication for an STI you just contacted yesterday night with that new girl that you met in a bar or you easily fished.
It makes us think a lot before getting in bed Mostly when the protection gears weren’t planned for well.
Getting Clung on a woman they don’t like
There are women that we guys just chase to satisfy our curiosities or to fulfill our wild fantasies. Unlike women who put a relatively high premium on intimacy, a good number of men tend to be very casual about it. So when guys are getting intimate with the girls they really don’t like, most worry about the resulting consequences like getting emotionally attached or clung on them.
They believe that when thing goes better between the sheets, time will come when she no longer wants to keep it private.
This is mostly in older men, especially bachelors. One question that seemingly nags them each time they are making love is whether they are impotent or are fertile. Knowing that you can bring forth a human being, even if there are no such plans is every man’s pride. Every man is always hoping that he doesn’t shoot blanks.